The 12 steps of AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) help many alcoholics stop drinking. The AA twelve steps are as follows:
Alcoholics can go to free meetings to learn about the 12 steps of AA. At meetings, members speak about the various AA twelve steps and how to put them into practice. It is important to work the steps in order, as each step builds on the steps before it. Members are also encouraged to find a sponsor, someone who has completed the AA twelve steps, to guide and encourage them as they work the steps.
While the 12 steps of AA may seem simple, it can be quite challenging to actually carry them out. For example, it can be frightening to acknowledge what a mess we have made of our lives. It is emotionally difficult to make a list of all the people we have harmed due to our drinking, and even more difficult to make amends.
That’s why the support of the group is so important. We can’t complete the AA twelve steps on our own. Even if we could emotionally get through most of them without support (and it would be difficult), step 5 requires that we admit the exact nature of your wrong to another person. Step 12 requires us to carry the message to others (generally done through participation in AA groups). The 12 steps are designed to be done with the support of an AA group.
It is expected that it will take some time to complete the 12 steps. It is not something to be rushed. It takes many people a great deal of time just to complete the first step.
Not everyone is a fan of the 12 steps of AA. Some people feel that saying we are powerless over alcohol just gives us an excuse to “stay stuck.” They believe we need to feel powerful, not powerless. Others object to the spiritual component of the program.
Still, the AA twelve steps have helped tens of thousands of people, if not more, worldwide to stop drinking. It is a highly recommended program, and is a component of many, if not most, alcoholism treatment programs in the United States.
To learn more about the 12 steps of AA, attend an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting in your area. Just look up Alcoholics Anonymous in your local yellow pages, or look them up online.